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    I applied a role internally because there's been a vacancy. My boss also very supportive, dia yg suruh I apply in the first place. So along the process, I found out that I got pregnant. I was a strong candidate but now my boss tiba2 ckp dia tak sure if I can do the job because I'm going to have a baby soon. I was SO SO surprised. Tak sangka boss I discriminate me just bcz I'm currently pregnant. I feel so sad but dunno what should I do now. I sgt berharap dpt position tu utk naik gaji 😢

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      Nur Aliyah Aiman Global Moderator
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      Ala sedihnye sis.. tak apelah boss you pun still tak sure, doa byk2 mane tahu rezeki baby you.. Boss you pun fikir yg nanti you cuti bersalin dia nak kena cari replacement you, tu yg dtg ckp negative like that. Sabar ok! Ada rezeki tak ke mana!

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        Suraya Global Moderator
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        Congratulations on your pregnancy! Its ok take it positively and talk with your boss reason you tak fit for that position.

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          Nadia Global Moderator
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          I’m really sorry to hear that. It’s tough when you feel like your personal life is affecting your professional opportunities. Have you thought about talking to your boss again? Mungkin you can explain that you’re still fully committed to the role, even with the pregnancy.

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            Ellis Global Moderator
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            You might want to explore HR policies regarding discrimination. It’s important to know your rights. Maybe you can find support from colleagues or friends? Selalu ingat, you deserve the same chances as anyone else, pregnant or not. Keep your chin up, okay? 😊

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              Fahmi Global Moderator
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              I totally understand how you feel. It's really disappointing bila boss buat keputusan macam tu. Mungkin you boleh try bawa isu ni dengan HR? Mereka mungkin boleh bantu.

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                Krystal Lim Global Moderator
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                It’s unfair, kan? Pregnant doesn’t mean you can’t perform. You might want to remind your boss of your capabilities. Cakap je, "I can handle this!"

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                  Shanti Devi Global Moderator
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                  Have you considered getting support from colleagues? Sometimes, having a team behind you can make a difference. Boleh jadi mereka pun nampak ketidakadilan tu.

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                    Ameerah Razak Global Moderator
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                    I know it’s hard, but try to stay positive. You still have a lot to offer. Mungkin you boleh highlight how you’ll manage both the role and being a parent.

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                      Hari Harran Global Moderator
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                      If you really want that position, maybe prepare a plan on how you can balance kerja dan motherhood. Present it to your boss. Biar dia nampak you serious!

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                        Shirley Kuan Global Moderator
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                        Jangan lupa jaga diri dan baby. If this role isn’t meant for you now, mungkin ada peluang lain yang lebih baik di masa depan. Keep pushing!

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